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Love as a verb it is something you do.   It takes action.   In order to love another person properly you have to love yourself first.  You have to be kind and caring to yourself first.  Once you do that you can learn to love and share yourself with others.  I love it when I fly on the plane and they tell you to put your oxygen mask on first and then to take care of others.  That is what love is.  Love yourself first and then love others.  By doing this you can set your standards higher and expect more out of life, because you’re worth it.  You know you are.
                                                 
 

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The 7 Steps to Stop Grieving

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Things Every Girl Should Know How to Say to a Man | 12/5/2016

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Is This Normal?

Sometimes things are crazy and we just don’t know it.  What we do as normal in our homes is way out there for others. Just because we grew up seeing it does not make it normal.  If your parents were verbally, mentally or physically abusive with each other it is ok to understand that this is not normal and it is ok to questions behavior you grew up witnessing.  It is ok to decide you do not want to live a certain way. You can learn to set your standards higher and work to gain awareness in order to set yourself up for a better life.
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Am I Crazy?

Do not let the insecurities of another person diminish you. Usually the abusive person wants to control you and they do it by making you feel worthless.  You are supposed to funnel all your energy into their happiness and none of it into yours, they want all the time, money and attention to be spent on them.  They yell at you because the voices in their own head are so demented and sick it is easier to make you feel worthless than to fix themselves. It is easier to create chaos in their outer world than to hear the destructive thoughts going on in their mind.
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